Monday, November 25, 2013

Concluding Thoughts on the Botkins' "Ready for Real Life" Webinar

Introduction: Botkins Launch Webinar on Making Kids "Ready for Real Life"
Part I: Ready for What?
Part II: Are Your Children Ready for Real Life?
Part III: Arts and Culture
Part IV: Science and Medicine 
Part V: History and Law 
Part VI: Vocations 
Part VII: Q&A Session 
Conclusion

After receiving a tip from one of my readers, I purchased access to the "Ready for Real Life" webinar, hosted by the Botkin family of the Western Conservatory for the Arts and Sciences. After listening to the seven-part webinar, I was struck by how paradoxical the content was.  On one hand, Christians are to teach their children to take dominion of the world and assume positions of leadership, according to the Botkins. On the other hand, their instructions on how to raise homeschooled children would make this next to impossible.

The Botkins place little value on college degrees or certifications, but without degrees, advancement to leadership positions in most fields would be difficult if not impossible. Geoffrey Botkin speaks coldly about the so-called "slave economy" in which most mainstream jobs are situated, discouraging homeschooled youth from working at such jobs. The Botkins' distrust of secular academia, the mainstream scientific community, the modern art and music scenes, the military, and the secular state (evident in Geoffrey's hostility toward so-called "statism") precludes young people from working in those fields as well. How can youth raised with the Botkins' ideology be leaders in the world if advanced educational opportunities and multiple career fields are off limits?

Furthermore, leadership involves understanding and working alongside the people one intends to lead. The Botkins, however, are wary of people and ideas outside of their immediate subculture. People who think differently than them are viewed at best as "sheep" in need of a shepherd, and at worst as enemies. In the Botkins' day to day lives, such people are largely avoided. How can Botkin-aligned youth lead other people if their ideology prevents them from interacting with others at length or learning about them?

It goes without saying that in the Botkins' vision, such leaders will be men. The Botkins' ideology relegates women to the home, where they are assigned the tasks of homeschooling children, keeping the house in order, possibly running a home business, and accepting the blame when things go wrong. College and careers outside the home are off-limits, and gifts are to be put aside in favor of marriage and motherhood, as in the case of Geoffrey's daughter-in-law. Women can help their men, but not serve as leaders in their own right. How do the Botkins expect their fundamentalist Christians to rise up as leaders when half of their number are barred from meaningful participation in the outside world?

In conclusion, the Botkins' webinar encourages Christian homeschooling families to take dominion, but fails to provide realistic instructions for doing so. The ideology they preach is not only inadequate for achieving the dominion they crave, but inadequate for preparing young people for real life. Life in a fundamentalist bubble simply isn't good training for leadership in the real world.




A warm thank you to Homeschoolers Anonymous for cross-posting this series.

Commentary Tidbits

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Sarah Over the Moon: What Love and Respect and Fireproof Teach Abusers and their Victims

SPLC Hatewatch: Man Who Claims Ties to ‘Christian American Patriot Militia’ Threatens Obama in Facebook Post

RH Reality Check: Right-Wingers Again Try to Scuttle UN Convention on Rights of Disabled

Time: Rick Santorum Goes to Hollywood

Alternet: 5 Christian Right Delusions and Lies About History

Homeschoolers Anonymous: Snake Oil Homeschooling: The False Promises of Fear and Control

Ordo Amoris: Homeschooling and the Fear of Man


News Tidbits

WEMU 89.1: EMU Settles with Students for Life, the Alliance Defending Freedom

Religion News Service: Mark Driscoll accused of plagiarism by radio host Janet Mefferd

Army Times: Gay Army couple says chaplain barred them from marriage retreat

Buzzfeed: Rep. Michele Bachmann Refuses To Include LGBT Families In Adoption Resolution



Happy Thanksgiving from Betty Bowers!

Let's give thanks for the latest video from Betty Bowers!


Thursday, November 21, 2013

Commentary Tidbits

Liberty for Captives: The Myth of Biblical Manhood

Holy Bullies and Headless Monsters: The anti-gay right needs to be exposed for their scientific misconduct

 GLAAD: Air Force Academy recruits 'ex-gay' counselor; totally prepared for any wars necessitating snake oil

Wall of Separation: Hobby Lobby President Proposes Bible Elective in Oklahoma Public School

RH Reality Check: Meet the Men Behind ‘Six Reasons to Not Send Your Daughter to College’

Salon: My abstinence-only education

News Tidbits

Religion News Service: Methodist Church gives pastor 30 days to desist or give up credentials

King 5: Taxpayer money taken away from religious group after public outrage

The Murfreesboro Post: Mighty Men Conference attracts big crowd

Associated Press: Oklahoma megachurch, mom of rape victim settle suit

Chicago Sun-Times: Bishop Paprocki Stages Exorcism as Gay Marriage Becomes Law: 'Be Gone Satan"

NBC 9 News: School leader privately admits 'indefensible' breach of church and state over Operation Christmas Child

Raw Story: Colbert congratulates guest Santorum on appealing to ‘not enough people to win’

Philadelphia Inquirer: Santorum Not Ruling Out Presidential Run in 2016

Pink News: Restaurant says family which said they did not agree with lesbian waitress’s ‘lifestyle’ can return

Gay Star News: Australia: Religious groups’ right to discriminate to be restricted in New South Wales

Wednesday, November 20, 2013

Transgender Day of Remembrance


Today is the 2013 Transgender Day of Remembrance, an annual event devoted to victims of deadly transphobic violence. The Transgender Day of Remembrance is held every November in honor of Rita Hester, a transgender woman who was murdered on November 28th, 1998 and whose death inspired the "Remembering Our Dead" web project. The event follows this year's Transgender Awareness Week, which ran from November 11-17, raising awareness of transgender and gender-nonconforming people.

I just got back from a Transgender Day of Remembrance vigil on the steps of the capitol building in Harrisburg, PA. As Silent Witness Peacekeepers stood watch, voices from TransCentral PA, Equality Pennsylvania, and the LGBT Community Center of Central Pennsylvania spoke about transphobic hate crimes and transgender suicide. As a Unitarian Universalist clergyman delivered the closing prayer, the crowd mourned those who had passed. The vigil is an annual reminder that for transgender hate crime victims, and for those who take their own lives after facing unrelenting rejection and persecution, bigotry has deadly consequences.

Transphobia is an ugly reality in our society, and we need to end it. We need to speak out against transphobic hate crimes and discrimination. We need to speak out against far-right attacks on hard-won transgender rights. We need to affirm our transgender neighbors as human beings and equal citizens under the law. We need to work toward a society in which people of all gender identities can live full lives. The world has made progress, but the struggle is not over.

For more information on the Transgender Day of Remembrance, click here and here. For more information on transphobia in the U.S., check out the following resources. 

Taking It On the Chin: New Fast Facts About Violence Against Transgender People  

2012 Report on Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, Queer, and HIV-Affected Hate Violence

Injustice at Every Turn: A Report of the National Transgender Discrimination Survey

Transgender Students in U.S. Schools